Crisp the bacon: In a heavy pot over medium heat, cook the chopped bacon until the fat renders and the pieces are crisp.
Transfer bacon to a plate and leave about 1 tablespoon of fat in the pot.
Sauté aromatics: Add butter to the pot. Stir in onion and celery with a pinch of salt. Cook 5–6 minutes, stirring, until soft and translucent.
Add garlic and cook 30 seconds, until fragrant.
Add cauliflower: Stir in the cauliflower florets or riced cauliflower. Cook 2–3 minutes to coat in the aromatics.
Build the broth: Pour in reserved clam juice plus enough bottled clam juice to total about 1 to 1 1/2 cups. Add bay leaf and thyme.
Bring to a gentle simmer, cover, and cook 8–10 minutes, until the cauliflower is tender.
Create the creamy base: Reduce heat to low. Add heavy cream, almond milk or broth, and cream cheese. Stir until the cream cheese melts and the mixture is smooth.
Thicken (optional): Sprinkle xanthan gum lightly over the surface while whisking to avoid clumps.
Simmer 1–2 minutes until slightly thicker. Start with 1/8 teaspoon if you prefer a lighter texture; add more only if needed.
Add clams: Stir in the chopped clams and half the crispy bacon. Simmer gently 2–3 minutes.
Do not boil, or the clams can turn tough.
Season: Remove the bay leaf. Taste and season with salt and black pepper. Clam juice can be salty, so adjust carefully.
Finish and serve: Ladle into bowls.
Top with remaining bacon and sprinkle with parsley or chives. Serve hot.