Prep the chicken: Pat chicken dry with paper towels and cut into bite-size pieces. Season lightly with salt and pepper.
Make the sauce: In a bowl, whisk tamari (and coconut aminos if using), sweetener, rice vinegar, sesame oil, ginger, garlic, and fish sauce.
Taste and adjust sweetness to your liking.
Heat the pan: Add avocado oil to a large skillet over medium-high heat. When shimmering, add the chicken in a single layer without crowding.
Sear the chicken: Cook 5–7 minutes, stirring occasionally, until the edges are browned and the chicken is cooked through. Remove excess liquid if the pan gets watery.
Add the sauce: Pour the sauce over the chicken and bring to a gentle simmer.
Reduce the heat to medium.
Thicken: Sprinkle xanthan gum evenly over the sauce while stirring. Start with 1/8 teaspoon, wait 30 seconds, then add more if needed. The sauce should turn glossy and coat the chicken.
Finish: Stir in half the green onions and a pinch of red pepper flakes if you like heat.
Simmer 1 more minute to meld flavors.
Serve: Spoon over cauliflower rice or steamed broccoli. Garnish with remaining green onions and sesame seeds.